Let's say, for example, that the CEO of the company that I work for committed an immoral act. Specifically, let's say that he did something to discriminate against women, but was careful to avoid legal reprimand. As a result, numerous women suffered emotionally.
As an employee of said company, would my moral obligation be towards the CEO or the women who were discriminated against? Loyalty or Humanity?
Now, what if I chose to support the CEO, not because I agreed with his actions, but because I felt I owed it to the man who pays my salary? Let's go one step further. What if I were offended by those who speak out against him because, in a way, I feel that by insulting him or my company, they were insulting me?
Would you find this logical?
I don't. And to support someone or something simply because you feel united as part of a collective group is wrong. And by support, I don't necessarily mean congratulating. Sometimes you can say more by not saying anything at all. "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing" (Edmund Burke).
I don't side with a person simply because they are an Atheist, like me. In fact, I recently carried on a very heated debate with a fellow Atheist where we both disagreed with one another.
And now, the religious moderates and fatheists. There seems to be some confusion as to my, and others', perspective towards these groups. For the record, I don't "condemn" or "blame" moderately religious people, or those that believe in belief. I do think, however, they are not helping the cause against irrationality.
Richard Dawkins said, "… even mild and moderate religion helps to provide the climate of faith in which extremism naturally flourishes." Sam Harris said, "The respect that they [liberal and moderate Christians] demand for their own religious beliefs gives shelter to extremists of all faiths."
Where, in those quotes, do you see, "YOU ARE TO BLAME FOR THE EXTREMISTS" ?
Let's now look at a different example. My sister, for her teaching assignment, wrote a very lengthy paper on 'bullying'. The topic she chose to discuss was not, however, addressing the perpetrators - that's a given - nor the victim. Rather, she chose to highlight the responsibility of the bystander.
I wish I could quote some of her interesting points, but without it, you can see that although spectators are not the ones who are actually inflicting harm onto another, by allowing it to occur is, in it's own way, potentially more harmful. By watching a physical fight in the playground and doing nothing to intervene, you are enabling the behaviour.
What's worse is the issue of loyalty. I consider myself loyal to my friends and family, but if they do something of which I do not agree, I will be outspoken about it. I do not adopt the logic, "Because you are my friend, I must show loyalty by agreeing with everything you do." I know what you're thinking: "Duh." But if this logic is so obvious, why are so many people reluctant to tell their loved one, "I think you are wrong" ?
I can't help but feel that sometimes I am judged simply because of my new outlook. Is anyone saying, "Oh, Alessa is going off on the poor religious people again" ? I notice that moderates fall silent when I discuss an immoral action that a church or a person of faith has made. The moment I tread on religious ground, they tiptoe away and say, "I don't want to be a part of this discussion."
But why, I ask sincerely? Do you agree that Catholic churches and religious groups should pool their hundreds of millions of dollars together to support an anti-gay campaign? Do you think that people should embrace suffering instead of receiving proper medical care? Do you think it's moral for people to trick widowers into believing that they're communicating to their loved ones from beyond the grave when, in fact, they are not?
If you do not agree with these things, then why are you saying nothing? If anything, a moderate has a stronger voice than I ever could. If the members of a Catholic church said to their priest, "I don't agree with this," their words would carry greater weight than if I or a secular group said the very same thing. Moderates that say nothing, in fact, say everything.
I am not blaming. I am not condemning. But, "HEAR NO EVIL. SPEAK NO EVIL. SEE NO EVIL" just doesn't work for me anymore. Does it work for you?